Better Sexual Sensation
For married couples who want to improve their sex life
by Joe Beam

The April 2nd broadcast of Give and Take with Joe Beam ushered in a question that we felt couldn't be adequately answered on the radio because of the varied age groups who listen to our program.

Aa listener asked what could be done to enhance the sexual experience for a wife who felt her husband did not have enough penis size to fulfill her. She also pointed out that this problem began after she had children.

Joe's Answer:

We should first point out that it is not uncommon for men and women to report changes in sensation after she has given birth. The widening of the vagina is normal after child birth. Some coupless adjust to this change and their love making does not suffer. Other couples find it difficult to adjust to this change and experience frustration that may harm other areas of the relationship.

Penis Size Issues

The average penis length for an American male is 5 1/4 inches. The average circumference is 4 and 1/2 inches. If you or your husband's penis is at least that size, his size is probably not the main issue in your lack of sexual fulfillment.

Furthermore, the first 2 to 3 inches in the vagina are the most sensitive because of the amount of nerve endings it contains. Usually the desire for deeper penetration is the result of psychological stimulation. As I've said in countless seminars, the most powerful sexual tool is the brain.

Though commercials and websites might try to sell pills promising to increase penis size, they don't work. The one way to increase penis size is for the man to lose weight. As fat decreases, more of the penis is exposed outside the body. Before you buy ineffective pills or have surgeries with undesirable side effects, leave off dessert with your meal and consult your health care professional about an exercise regiment. Not only will you improve your overall health, but your sex life with your spouse will be blessed as well.

How Wives Can Help

Wives who want more sensation in their sexual experience can help improve their situation as well. An exercise, known as the Kegel exercise, will strengthen the inside of the vagina. This will provide a tighter overall vagina that will provide increased sensation for both husband and wife.

The workout consists of flexing the muscle used to stop and hold in the flow of urine. Flex and release that muscle to do one full Kegel. You may do this during your day without anyone else knowing. Though most people are able to do one hundred or more Kegels for an exercise session, if you think you may have any problems that might be irritated by doing Kegels, consult your health care professional. For more information, see www.well-net.com/womenshealth/kegelexercise1.html.

For Immediate Results

There is a variation of the missionary position that will provide a greater sensation of tightness to the vagina. This will help wives feel more sensation from their husband's penis and will help husbands feel greater tightness from their wife's vagina. To achieve this position, the husband enters his wife's vagina with her legs spread. Once he is in, she places both of her legs inside of his and he straddles her lower body. The rest is up to you.

When practiced, the tools I've provided for you in this article will help you achieve a more mutually fulfilling sexual experience with your spouse.

And remember, practice makes pleasure.

© Joe Beam. All rights reserved.
Host of Give and Take: When True Love Meets Real Life

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